Guide Posts: Cultivate those informal mentors

Last night I found myself burning the calories away on the spin bike in the gym. As often I do my mind wandered, from the task of turning up the resistance at regular intervals, to contemplating my career path.

I was reflecting on how I would describe a good friend of mine. Why? Because he is someone that has always impressed me as "having it all together and happy." As I've gotten to know him better my impressions have only improved. He's attained a higher level of his own sense of self and the world around him. I find it helpful to have this type of person in mind when reflecting on my own behaviors and perceptions, and what may be holding me back.
 
This individual has achieved what you might associate with the concept of spiritual enlightenment. He is adeptly in tune with his inner being and his purpose. He's "found his center" as I like to say. His work is diverse and truly art, he gives lots of gifts (in the true Seth Godin sense) and lives to serve those lucky enough to be around him. He's extremely mindful of the space he's occupying and a-tuned to those in his presence. I always get a sense from him that he truly relishes interaction, discussion and contemplation with other human beings.

For me this individual provides a guide post for my path in life. Why not a target? Probably because I do have a sense of self and I'm happy with who I am. I don't have to be the mirror of him for me to achieve my own high level of personal enlightenment. I do know that as I continue my journey I will frequently ask myself, "what would he do in such a situation?"

Do you have someone like this? An informal mentor might be one way to describe our relationship. Perhaps you can think about this next time you meet that next interesting individual. Ask yourself "would they be a good guide-post for me personally and/or professionally?"